这个世上，真正聪明的人都在取悦自己，只有傻子才讨好别人。
In this world, the really smart people are pleasing themselves, and only fools are pleasing others.
因为不论友情还是爱情，都不是为了取悦彼此才相遇，而是和ta在一起，彼此都会喜悦。
Because no matter friendship or love, they do not meet each other to please each other, but they will be happy with each other when they are together.
像照顾别人一样，去照顾自己的情绪；
Like taking care of others, take care of your emotions;
像关注别人那样，倾听自己的声音；
Listen to your own voice as you do to others;
像讨好别人那样，尊重自己的想法。
Respect your own ideas as you please others.
那时就会发现：人生原来如此明朗，而爱更是简单。
At that time, we will find that life is so clear, and love is even simpler.
生活不是徐引清风而怒放，而是，无论清风来与不来，我为我自己盛开。
Life is not a breeze in full bloom, but whether the breeze comes or not, I bloom for myself.
如此，才是最好的人生姿态。
This is the best attitude in life.
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