How to Start a conversation？
G=girl; B=boy
四个情景对话
1.B:Hello!My name's Mikey.
你好！我的名字是Mikey。
What's your name?
你叫什么名字？
G:Stephanie,nice to me you.
斯蒂芬妮，很高兴见到你。
2.B:Where are you from Stephanie?
斯蒂芬妮，你来自哪里呢？
3.G:So,What did you think of the film?
那么，你认为这部电影怎么样？
B:It was...... interesting.
很有意思。
G: Does that mean you didn't like it?
意思是你不喜欢它?
B:I'm glad I saw it,but I wouldn't watch it Again.
我很高兴看这部电影，但是我可能不会再看了。
4.Oh,hey,I saw some of your pictures from your trip.
哦，嘿，我看到了你旅游的照片。
They're amazing!
它们都很棒哦！
G:Thanks for saying so!
谢谢你这么说！
B:What kind of camera do you use?
你用的什么相机拍摄呢？
G:Actually I just use my phone.
实际上，我只用了我的手机。
Part 1 讲 解
First of all ,if you don't know the other person,of course you should introduce yourself.
首先，如果你不认识对方，当然首先就是做自我介绍。
It can be awkward(尴尬的) if you start talking and then you realize an hour later that you don't know the other person's name.
如果你开始聊天一个小时后，你意识到还不知道对方的名字，这会让你很尴尬。
You saw three ways to start a conversation.
你看到了conversation三种开始对话的方式。
What were they?
分别是什么呢？
One,Ask a simple question:
问一个简单的问题：
What's your name?
你叫什么名字？
Where are you from?
你从哪里来？
What do you do？
你是做什么的？
Two,Make a comment or ask a question about the situation you're:
对你所处的的情况发表评论或提出问题。
That looks delicious!What is it?
这个看上去很美味，这是什么呢？
What did you think of the film?
你认为这电影怎么样？
It's so cold in here!Is the heating broken?
这里真冷啊！暖气坏了吗？
Great party,right?Who do you here?
很棒的聚会吧？在那里你认识谁呢？
Three: Compliment the other person:
赞美对方
I love your top!Where did you get it?
我喜欢你的上衣！在哪里可以得到它呢？
I thought your presentation was really interesting.
我认为你的演讲非常有趣。
Oh,you're Mikey?I've heard so many good things about you!
哦，你是Mikey是吗？我听说过很多关于你的很棒的事哦！
Part 2 延 伸
Don't think too much about what you say first.
先不要过多考虑你要说的内容。
When you start a conversation,It's more important to say something.even if it's something very simple.
当你开始一段对话时，说点什么更重要，即使是很简单的事情。
Easy,right？
这很容易，对吗？
Introduce yourself,say something simple,and you've started a conversation.
介绍一下你自己，说些简单的对话，然后就可以接下来的对话了。
Next,you need to build the conversation.
接下来，需要构建对话。
How to continue a conversation？
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B:Hey,you're Stephanie,right?
嘿，你是斯蒂芬妮，对吗？
G:Yeah,Mikey?
是啊，你是Mikey？
B:That's right!
那就对了！
B:Peter told me you're in a band?
彼得告诉我你在乐队里？
G:Well,kind of.
嗯，是啊。
G:I play guitar,and we just play together for fun.
我弹吉他，并且觉得有趣我们就在一起玩。
G:It's nothing serious.
这没什么大不了的。
B:I play the gutiar too,actually.
我实际上也是弹吉他的。
G:Really?What kind of thing do you play?
真的吗？你玩什么样的吉他呢？
B:Actually,I play classical guitar.
实际上，我玩古典吉他。
B:I just do it as a hobby,I'm not that good,but I enjoy it.
我只是把它作为一种爱好，我弹得不是很好，但是我喜欢。
G:That's the important thing.
这是比较重要的。
G:Anyway,how do you know the Peter?
话说回来，你是怎么认识彼得的？
B:We used to work together,and we stayed in touch.
我们曾经一起工作，一直有联系。
Part 1 讲 解
Here,you saw three useful things you can do to build a conversation in English.
在这里，你看到了用英语建立对话的三个有用的方法。
Do you know what they were?
你知道分别是什么吗？
That's all very simple.
这三种方法都非常简单。
Anyone can use them.
任何人都可以使用。
First idea:make a reference to something you have in common.
第一个：提及你们的共同点。
For example,do you know that the other person is a football fan?
例如：你知道对方是足球迷吗？
Ask:who do you support?
问：你支持谁？
Or:Did you see the City game on Sundy?
或者：周日你看到城市队的比赛吗？
Or:What's your prediction for the cup final next weekend?
或者：你对下周的世界杯决赛有什么预测？
If you meet someone while you're traveling,you could ask”
如果你在旅行中遇到某人，你可以问：
Where are you going to next?
你接下来要去哪儿？
You went to Rome?
你去了罗马？
Any recommendation?
有什么推荐吗？
Do you know any good places to eat around here?
你知道这里有什么好吃的地方吗？
We said that you saw three ways to continue a conversation.What's the second one?
我们说你学到了继续谈话的三种方式。第二个是什么？
Part 2 延 伸
Ask the other person about themselves and their life.
问问别人关于他们自己以及他们生活。
People generally like to talk it when other people are interested in them,so this can be very effective.
人们通常喜欢谈论自己，当别人对他们感兴趣时，他们也喜欢谈论自己，所以这是非常有效的。
For example:Your job sounds really difficult,How do you message everything?
例如：你的工作听起来很难。你如何安排一切。
I like your pictures.
我喜欢你的照片。
Is that in India?
那是在印度吗？
I heard you're really into cooking.What kind of stuff do you like to make?
我听说你真的很喜欢做饭。你喜欢做什么
Part 3 举 例
Finally,you can also continue the conversation by referring to someone you both know,like this:
最后，你可以通过引用你认识的人来继续对话，例如这个：
How do you know Lisa?
你怎么知道丽莎？
Have you known Simon long?
你认识西蒙很久吗？
You work with Lee? I heard he can be quiet difficult.
你和李一起工作？我听说他很难相处。
Again,It's more important to say something,even if it's something very basic.
再说一次，说一些东西更重要，即使它是非常基本的东西。
When you've just started talking to someone,anything is better than saying nothing.
当你刚开始和某人交谈时，说点什么都比什么都不说要好得多。
The longer you can keep the conversation going, the more you'll learn about each other,and the more topics you’ll have to explore.
谈话时间越长，你们对彼此的了解就越多，你们可以聊的话题也多。
交流是拉进人与人之间最有效的方式。
无论是陌生人还是朋友。
学习沟通技巧。
告别哑巴英语。
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