英语表达关心的方式
表达关心
当别人告诉你他们很难过的时候，表达关心和同情是很重要的。下面是一些表达关心的常用短语:
非正式
- Bummer.
- I feel you.
- Tough luck.
- I can't believe that. That's horrible/disgusting/not fair.
例句
- I feel you. Life isn't always easy.
- Bummer, but keep trying. You'll find a good job eventually.
正式的
- I'm (so) sorry to hear that.
- That's too bad.
- What can I do to help?
- Is there anything I can do for you?
- Would you like to talk about it?
例句
- I'm sorry to hear that. What can I do to help?
- That's too bad. Would you like to talk about it?
鼓励他人发声
如果你看到某人很伤心，但那个人却没有和你谈论这件事，有时候最好给他一些空间。然而，为了让他们知道你在他们身边，你可以用下面的短语和问题让他们说出自己的感受。
- You don't seem to be yourself today. Is anything the matter?
- You seem sad. You can tell me all about it if you want.
- Why the long face?
注意:在敏感的情况下，比如谈论某人的负面情绪，你的语调和整体方式可能真的很关键。确保你不会给人留下一个咄咄逼人或爱打听的印象。相反，试着传达出你只是想帮忙的意思。
对话示例
这些对话将帮助你和朋友或同学练习表达悲伤或关心。
At work
Colleague 1: Hi Bob. I'm feeling out of sorts today.Colleague 2: I'm sorry to hear that. What seems to be the problem?
Colleague 1: Well, I'm really upset about the changes at work.Colleague 2: I know, it's been difficult for everyone.
Colleague 1: I just don't understand why they had to change our team!Colleague 2: Sometimes management does things we don't understand.
Colleague 1: It makes no sense! I just don't feel well about it at all.Colleague 2: Maybe you need some time off work.
Colleague 1: Yes, maybe that's it.Colleague 2: Is there anything I can do to help?
Colleague 1: No, just talking about it makes me feel a little better.Colleague 2: Feel free to talk to me anytime.
Colleague 1: Thanks. I appreciate it.Colleague 2: No problem.
Between friends
Sue: Anna, what's the matter?Anna: Nothing. I'm fine.
Sue: You seem sad. You can tell me all about it if you want.Anna: OK, well, I'm in the dumps about Tom.
Sue: Bummer. What seems to be the problem?Anna: I don't think he loves me anymore.
Sue: Really! Are you sure about that?Anna: Yes, I saw him yesterday with Mary. They were laughing and having a great time.
Sue: Well, maybe they were just studying together. It doesn't mean he's leaving you.Anna: That's what I keep telling myself. Still, I'm feeling blue.
Sue: Is there anything I can do?Anna: Yes, help me distract myself. Let's go exercise together!
Sue: Now you're talking. The new dance class at the gym would help you feel much better.Anna: Yes, maybe that's what I really need.
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