正文翻译Can children be evil?孩子可以是邪恶的吗?
评论翻译Ivy Watts, studies Pre Veterinary Medicine at Washington State University (2024)upxed October 1It can feel that way. I was an evil child. I’m 18 now, but not ten years ago I was the most hateful, destructive, emotionally abusive child you could ever meet.This is me:你可以这么认为。我曾经就是一个邪恶的孩子。我现在18岁了,但以前的我是你能遇到的最可恨、最具破坏性、恶趣味的孩子。这个是我:
When I was little, I used to put electrical tape on my rabbit and then rip it off and laugh when he screamed. I kicked my dogs and enjoyed the look on their face when they forgave me, because I knew I could do it again and again and they would still come back with love in their eyes.I hated my sister with all of my heart. I punched her, hit her, screamed. I once pushed her down the stairs and I genuinely hoped she would die.When I was 6, I took a kitchen knife and threatened to slit my mother’s throat, cut her up, and toss the pieces in the ocean if I didn’t get what I wanted. I would sit in the corner and whisper to an imaginary friend; an angry tornado named Estelle, and he told me to do bad things.小时候,我经常给我的兔子贴上电工胶带,然后撕下来,当它尖叫的时候,我就会大笑。我踢我的狗,享受它们原谅我时的表情,因为我知道我可以一次又一次地踢它们,它们还是会眼里充满了爱地回来。我全心全意地恨着我的妹妹。我推过她,打过她,朝她大喊大叫。我曾经把她从楼梯上推下去,我当时真心希望她就这么死去。当我6岁的时候,我拿着一把菜刀威胁说,如果我没有得到我想要的东西,我就会割开我母亲的喉咙,把她剁了,然后把碎片扔进海里。我会坐在角落里,对一个想象中的朋友说悄悄话;想象出一个名叫埃斯特尔的愤怒龙卷风,他让我去做这些坏事。
Growing up, I knew many children who were as cruel as could be to others, who back then I considered evil and irredeemable. One child I knew would do things such as pinning others down while he would all punch them and bring other kids in on it. He engaged in extreme bullying, he said the most hateful and vitriolic things to almost our entire class, including myself. Eventually this child was expelled at the age of 9 from our school for sitting on top of a girl while he burned her with a BBQ lighter several times, hit her, and then touched her private areas while she cried. He was taken away by the police that day. His parents placed him in intensive counseling, which lead to the revelation that his father had been severely abusing him physically and sexually since he was 3. He was able to heal through years of counseling, and support from our community. Later that year, though he was still expelled from our school forever, he still made a tearful apology in front of our entire classroom, telling us why he did what he did, and how he cries every night thinking about what he had done to the girl, and the rest of us. Today, he is a Doctor and a Surgeon who volunteers to give free surgeries to children with cleft palates, and victims of abuse in third world countries to families who cannot afford them. Most of his life has been about giving back to others. He is also still very good friends with the girl who he burned.在我成长的过程中,我认识了很多对别人残忍至极的孩子,那时的我认为他们是邪恶的,是不可救药的。我认识的一个孩子会做一些事情,比如把别人按倒在地、打人,还把其他孩子也拉进来。他对别人进行极端的欺凌,他几乎对我们整个班级的同学,包括我在内,都说了最可恶、最尖刻的话。最后这个孩子在9岁的时候就被我们学校开除了,因为他坐在一个女孩身上,而他用烧烤打火机烧了她好几次,打了她,然后在她哭的时候摸了她的私处。当天他就被警察带走了。他的父母把他送去接受强化辅导,结果发现他的父亲从他三岁起就对他进行了严重的身体和性虐待,通过多年的辅导和我们社区的支持,他得以痊愈。那年晚些时候,虽然他还是被我们学校永远开除了,但他还是在我们全班同学面前声泪俱下地道歉,告诉我们他为什么要这样做,以及他每天晚上想到自己对那个女孩和我们其他人做的事情时,他是如何哭泣的。如今,他成为了一名医生,也是一名外科医生,他义务为第三世界国家的腭裂儿童、受虐者等无力承担手术费用的家庭提供免费手术。他的人生大部分时间都是在回馈他人。他和那个被他烧伤的女孩也还是很好的朋友。Another child I knew when I was 11, was the nicest kid I'd ever met. He'd always share his lunch, had high marks in class, played baseball, and was good friends with most of the boys in the class, and was the type of kid who would give you his jacket if you forgot yours on a cold day. This other child grew up and ended up with a life sentence in prison for murdering his wife.I absolutely believe there are some children who are born evil. Psychopaths are born without the area of the brain that gives them empathy for others, they have no remorse, and enjoy hurting others. In this respect, absolutely, some children are evil from day one. But generally speaking it's impossible to say, it could just be a child who will grow out of it in a few years and become a great kid. It could be a child with ADHD, or Autism. Other children like the ones from my school did undoubtedly evil things, but grew up to help others in ways most of us never will. Or the other child who was once an amazing person, but now is in prison for life. We all did things as kids we regret, and in retrospect see how terrible it was. It's impossible to know if a 3 year old is evil, but there absolutely some children who are simply born evil, others may seem evil, but could grow out of it and learn from their mistakes.我11岁时认识的另一个孩子,是我见过的最好的孩子。他总是会分享自己的午餐,在班上的成绩很好,打棒球,和班上大部分的男生都是好朋友,而且他是那种在寒冷的日子里,如果你忘了带外套,他会把自己的外套给你的孩子。这孩子长大后,最后却因为杀妻被判了无期徒刑。我绝对相信有一些孩子是天生的恶魔。精神病患者生来大脑中就没有能让他们对他人产生同情心的区域,他们对自己的所作所为没有悔意,并且喜欢伤害他人。从这方面来说,绝对的,有些孩子从一出生就是邪恶的。但一般来说,这又是不可能的,可能只是一个孩子,过几年就会长大,成为一个优秀的孩子。可能是一个多动症的孩子,或者自闭症的孩子。还有一些孩子,比如我学校的那个孩子,无疑做了一些邪恶的事情,但长大后却以我们大多数人永远也不会做的方式去帮助别人。或者另一个孩子曾经是个了不起的人,但现在却在监狱里待了一辈子。我们小时候都做过后悔的事,回想起来才知道那是多么可怕。不可能知道一个3岁的孩子是否邪恶,但绝对有一些孩子就是天生邪恶,其他的孩子可能当时看起来很邪恶,但还是可以从错误中成长,从错误中学习。Liv Kc, studies at Our Lady of the Sacred Heart College, Bentleigh (2024)Answered June 12, 2020Yes 100%. Psychopathy is mental disorder that can be genetic or just created from the environment that they grew up in. Psychopathy makes someone narcissistic and without empathy, sympathy and remorse, this mental disorder covers around 1% of the population which if you think about it is a lot of people. Now people with this disorder can got 2 different ways: my example of this would be Jake Paul and Ted Bundy. Jake Paul is an arrogant, dumb, un-empathetic asshole who does not seem to care whenever his friends are in danger or if they hurt, all he seems to care about it if what happened was funny enough to get views. this could be genetic since his brother has the same style personality or from the environmental, because their dad seems like, off camera an abusive father that they are too scared to speak out about. Now on the other side we have Ted Bundy, I believe his disorder was genetic because his home life seemed very normal, but Ted Bundy started at a young age, he once built a trap with spikes at the bottom, most likely to kill whatever fell in but instead of an animal a little girl fell in and hurt herself VERY badly. Most serial killers have this disorder and they usually hurt animals at a young age slowly building up hurting people. Another example would be Luca Magnotta, he put kittens in an air-tight bad and sucked out the air, he also but kittens in a freezer and finally before killing his first victim he but a cat in a bath and filled it with water and watched the kitten drown. A serial killer that lived in my home town used to burry kittens up to their necks and run them over with a lawnmower, all these horrible things were done by kids. So yes evil children do exist.是的,100%。心理变态是一种精神障碍,可以是遗传的,也可以是他们成长的环境造成的。精神病变使人自恋,没有同理心,同情心和悔恨,这种精神障碍覆盖了约1%的人口,你可以想一想这包含了多少人。现在患有这种疾病的人可以有两种不同的方式:我的例子是杰克·保罗和泰德·邦迪。杰克·保罗是一个傲慢、愚蠢、冷漠的混蛋,每当他的朋友遇到危险或受伤时,他看起来都不在乎,他在乎的是发生的事情是否足够有趣,足以获得关注。这可能是遗传,因为他的兄弟有相同的个性或环境,因为他们的父亲似乎是一个在镜头外虐待孩子的父亲,他们太害怕说出来。现在镜头转向另一边,我们看看泰德邦迪,我相信他的障碍是遗传的,因为他的家庭生活似乎很正常,但泰德邦迪在年轻的时候就开始作了,他曾经挖过一个陷阱,底部放着钉子,足以杀死任何掉进去的东西,但掉进去的不是小动物而是一个小女孩,并且受了非常严重的伤。大多数连环杀手都有这种病症,他们通常在年轻时就伤害动物,慢慢地开始伤害人。另一个例子是卢卡-马格诺塔,他把小猫放在一个密闭的包里,并排出空气,他还把小猫放在冰柜里,最后在杀死第一个受害者之前,他把一只猫放在浴缸里,并装满水,看着小猫淹死。住在我家乡的一个连环杀手曾经把小猫埋到脖子,然后用割草机碾死,这些可怕的事情都是孩子们干的。所以是的,邪恶的孩子确实是存在的。Alisha Sedelnick, Fiber ArtistMy sister was. Technically she just has a neurlogical disorder, but I don't believe that is all.Lots of sociopaths live their life without trying to kill whatever and whoever, is in their way. Not her, ooh mommy is having a baby, I won't be the baby anymore, I’m killing them both. That is evil. I want a puppy from our dogs litter. Mom and dad said no, so I am throwing them in the drier. Little sister can run so fast, I am going to break her ankles with a hammer. Little sis got chicken and rice for her Birthday dinner, I hate rice, punches little sister so hard she ruptured my stomach. This isn't even half of the things she did.As her victim yes She was and is evil. She scared her first therapist who diagnosed her so badly the therapist requested protection while testifying in court. Dear sister was 12.I have referred to her as souless. She was taught right from wrong, she just doesn't care. I say shes evil, othets tell me I should be ashamed she needs help. Don't care, she won't take meds so it's a moot point. I just stay away. It works.我的姐姐曾经就是。严格来说,她只是患有神经失调,但我不相信这是全部。许多反社会分子过着他们的生活,却没有试图杀死任何阻碍他们生活的人。但不包括她,“呜呜妈妈要生孩子了,我就不是孩子了,我要杀了他们两个。”那就是邪恶。“我想从我们的狗窝里抓一只小狗。爸爸妈妈都说不要,所以我要把它们扔到烘干机里去。”“小妹跑得真快,我要用锤子砸断她的脚踝。”“小妹生日晚餐买了鸡肉和米饭,我最讨厌吃米饭了,所以我把小妹打得胃都破裂了。”这还不是她所做事情的一半。作为她的受害者,是的,她过去和现在都很邪恶。她把第一个诊断她的治疗师吓坏了,治疗师在法庭上作证时要求法庭保护她。而我亲爱的妹妹当时12岁。我曾称她为没有灵魂的人。她被教导过是非对错,却就是不放在心上。我说她是邪恶的,其他人告诉我,我应该感到羞愧,她需要帮助。我不在乎,反正她也不会去吃药,所以这是个无意义的问题。我只是远离她。这起作用了。Quora UserYou do not owe her anything. You do not need to be ashamed about her needing help because there is no help you could give her. You aren't qualified. Experts in this field aren't qualified to fix her.Your reaction is a self defensive one and clearerly self defense is warranted.你不欠她任何东西。 你不必为她需要帮助而感到羞愧,因为你没有办法给她任何帮助。你没有这个资格。毕竟连这个领域的专家都没有修复她。你的反应只是自我防御罢了,而很明显,自我防御是必要的。Alisha SedelnickThank you. I just had another person attack me on another post because of writing about this. There is not much anyone can do to help people like her. Many see nothing they do as wrong so why should they bother to take meds to stop. My sister likes who she is and sees everone else as the enemy because they do not provide her with what she wants.谢谢你,我刚刚因为写了这个,又有人在另一个帖子上攻击我。对于像她这样的人,任何人都帮不上忙。很多人就是认为他们所做的一切都没有错,所以他们为什么要费心去吃药来阻止。我的妹妹喜欢她现在的样子,并把其他人视为敌人,因为他们没有为她提供她想要的东西。Zach Fasenmyer, Studying Programming & Philosophy, Programmer, INTJNo, but they are VERY impressionable.In some ways, a child can be more dangerous than an adult, if they are being influenced by an “evil” adult. If an adult convinces a child to do something bad, we don’t blame the child. Yet, the consequences are unavoidable.Kids carrying grenades, a kid holding a gun, these are dangerous, despite the fact they are children. Sadly, whether it is the child's fault or not, an adult can lead a child to hurt other people. Most people have the morality to avoid harming the child at all costs. If they can, they will run away or use a stun gun, etc.Children can’t be “evil”, but they can carry out “evil” actions. It can be worse and more dangerous because most people would rather die than fight back and harm the child. Adults who influence child soldiers, etc. are the worst of mankind.不,但他们很容易受影响。在某些方面,如果孩子受到“邪恶”成年人的影响,他们可能比成年人更危险。如果是一个成年人去让孩子做坏事,我们就不会责怪孩子。虽然后果是不可避免的。孩子们拿着手榴弹,孩子拿着枪,这些都是危险的,尽管他们是孩子。 可悲的是,无论是否是孩子的错,成年人都会导致孩子伤害其他人。大多数人都有不惜一切代价避免伤害孩子的道德。如果可以,他们会跑掉或使用眩晕枪等。儿童不会是“邪恶”的,但他们可以采取“邪恶”的行动。这可能会更糟,更危险,因为大多数人宁愿死也不愿反击去伤害孩子。影响童兵的成年人等诸如此类。是人类中最坏的。Felix Flax, survivor of incest, rape,two murder attempts, and abuseYes, absolutely. My main physical abuser was the same age as me, and I will never understand why she thought violence was an acceptable answer to disagreements, but she beat me up often, starting from when we were both six years old, and I didn’t know any other way friendships could work since we were children and she was my first friend. She became more abusive as we aged and I befriended other people - she broke three of my ribs and also attempted to drown me when we were eleven. The summer after she outed me to our summer camp and, after years of believing she might actually kill me, I threatened to kill her because I was just so angry. I was kicked out of that camp and ended our friendship, which was a blessing in disguise. She wasn’t only violent towards me, and the adults at our temple always just excused her physically attacking people, especially me because I fought back so we were both in trouble. In middle school she got two of the after-school employees fired because she brought a camera into the bathroom and took pictures of other girls’ privates and may have put them on the Internet because the two employees “failed to prevent her” from bringing the camera to the gym. She didn’t go to my high school so I don’t know how she grew up into an adult, but she was absolutely an evil child.是的,绝对是。我的主要身体虐待者与我同龄,我永远不会理解为什么她认为暴力是可以接受的解决分歧的方法,但她经常打我,从我们都是六岁开始,我不知道任何其他友谊可以存在的方式,因为我们是孩子,她是我的第一个朋友。随着年龄的增长,她对我的虐待越来越多,我也结交了其他人--她打断了我的三根肋骨,还在我们十一岁的时候试图淹死我。在她把我揭发到我们的夏令营后的那个夏天,在经历多年虐待相信她可能真的会杀了我之后,我威胁要杀了她,因为我实在是太生气了。我被赶出了那个夏令营,结束了我们的友谊,这也是一种变相的祝福。她不仅对我有暴力倾向,我们营地里的大人总是原谅她对人进行人身攻击,尤其是对我,因为我会还击,所以我们在他们眼里都是麻烦。初中的时候,她让两个课后员工被开除了,因为她带着相机进了厕所,拍了其他女生的私处,还可能把照片放到了网上,而那两个员工 "没有阻止她"把相机带到了体育馆。她没有上过我的高中,所以我不知道她是怎么长大成人的,但她绝对是个邪恶的孩子。AnonymousYes, my brother used to be very evil when he was a little kid and, as I am not in touch with him now, I don’t know whether he has changed or not.We had an abusive father who used to be only abusive towards me and supportive of him. My brother usually enjoyed doing things that would make my father think that I, the older child, am hurting him, for example by starting to cry when my father got home. Then he enjoyed my going under very severe physical and psychic abuse as a result of that.One day, when he was a teenage boy I asked him why he regularly did that and he responded that he was jealous of me as a first child!He also used to tell stories of how he physically and psychically abused weak and unpopular kids at school, just for fun! For example, he made a clan of boys who chased and hit the weak child very severely in the yard until the school officials interfered.As far as I remember, he has always been a master at lying and deceiving other people!是的,我弟弟小时候曾经很邪恶,由于我现在已经断了和他的联系,所以我不知道他有没有改变。我们有一个暴虐的父亲,他以前只虐待我,对他很关心。我弟弟平时喜欢做一些让父亲觉得我这个大孩子在伤害他的事情,比如父亲回家后就开始哭。然后他喜欢看到我因此受到非常严重的身体和精神虐待。在他十几岁的时候,有一天,我问他为什么经常这样做,他回答说是嫉妒我这个大孩子!他说,他是在嫉妒我。他还经常讲他在学校里如何对弱小和不受欢迎的孩子进行身心虐待的故事,只是为了好玩! 比如,他让一帮男生在院子里追打弱小的孩子,打得很凶,直到校方人员干涉。在我的印象中,他一直都是一个撒谎和欺骗别人的高手!
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