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做英语情景对话的技巧
Hey there I'm Emma from mmmEnglish! Today I've got three things that I want to share with you that awesome English speakers do and I want to show you how you can get good at them too.
大家好，我是 Emma，欢迎来到美味英语频道！今天我要和你分享三件事情，而这三件事情都是英语说得很好的人会做的，我想要告诉大家如何熟练掌握这三个方面。
This video is perfect for you if you are learning English as a second language and you want to communicate more clearly, more effectively and build good relationships with other English speakers?
But these tips are also useful for anyone who speaks English and wants to communicate more effectively because not all native English speakers are awesome at communicating.
如果你正在学习英语作为第二语言的话，如果你想更加清晰有效地交流，和其他的说英语的人建立良好的关系的话，那么这个视频非常适合你。但是这些小技巧对任何说英语的人、任何想要更有效地沟通的人来说都是有效的，因为并非所有以英语为母语的人都非常擅长沟通。
Awesome communication is about more than just the words that you choose and today we're going to learn how this information could change the way that you think about English conversations forever. Hey ladies, I'm talking just at you for a minute.
很棒的交流不只是你选择的单词这么简单，我们今天就要学习这些信息如何永远地改变你对于英语的思考方式。嗨，女士们，我要和跟大家聊个一分钟。
I know that it's really hard to find genuine speaking partners to practise with, especially online. So I created The Ladies' Project to help women learning English to make international friends and practise speaking often no matter where you are in the world.
我知道很难找到真正的语伴一起练习，尤其是在线上练习。所以我创建了 The Ladies' Project 来帮助女性学习用英语，交到世界各地的朋友，无论身在何处都可以经常地进行练习。
It's an affordable way to get a lot of speaking practice, the amount that you need to build up your confidence and your fluency in English.
Maybe you're living in an English-speaking country but you aren't getting the daily practice that you need to improve or maybe you want to improve your conversation skills quickly to try and get a promotion at work or because you want to travel more independently.
这是一种可以进行很多口语练习的方法，而且大家都负担得起，练习的量刚好就是建立说英语的信心的流利度所需要的量。也许你住在一个英语国家，但是你没有为了提升自己而每天进行练习，也许你想要迅速提升你的对话技能，因为你想要工作上的升职，或者是因为你想自己去旅行。
Maybe you just want to immerse yourself in a safe and supportive English-speaking community. If that's true, you should definitely check it out.
也许你想让自己沉浸在一个安全的、互帮互助的英语群体中。如果是这样的话，那你肯定得去看看了。
You're gonna make friends in different countries, learn about different cultures and lifestyles and boost your English speaking confidence.
Now enrollments are opening very soon so if you want to find out more check this link or the link in the description and make sure you're on our mailing list because places are limited.
你将结交不同国家的朋友，了解不同的文化和生活方式，以及增强说英语的信心。报名即将开始，如果你想了解更多的话，那就看看这个链接吧，或者是描述中的链接也可以，一定要在我们的邮件列表中哦，因为名额可是有限的。
During a conversation, if you don't communicate your message clearly, people feel unsure. They might not know what's going on.
在对话过程中，如果你没有清晰表达你要表达的信息，大家会感觉不太确定。他们可能不知道发生了什么。
They might misinterpret or misunderstand you.
This can be annoying, it can create confusion but even worse, they might start to feel a little uncomfortable or awkward or uncertain and you probably didn't mean that, you didn't intend it but if they don't enjoy that experience of talking to you it might mean that in the future, they don't really want to do it again.
他们可能会误解你或者是误会你。这其实挺烦人的，会造成混乱，但更糟糕的是，他们可能会开始感到有一点不舒服，有点点尴尬，或者是不确定，你可能并不是这个意思，你并不是故意的，但是如果他们不喜欢与你交谈的经历的话，可能那就意味着今后他们不会想再和你进行沟通了。
They might try to avoid you or perhaps you know, try not to work with you on a project and this makes it really hard to fit in in your new language right and to feel accepted. So this whole topic that we're talking about today is quite serious.
他们可能会设法避开你，或者是尽量避免与你一起进行某个项目，这会让你更难适应你的新语言，也会让你感觉自己不被接受。这就是我们今天要讨论的重点，这个问题非常严肃呢。
Good or awesome communication is about more than just the words that you choose.
It also relates to the tone of your voice, your body language and other actions that support you while you're speaking and in English, we communicate with so much more than just words.
好的沟通并不是只是你选择的单词而已。这也与你说英语的时候的语气，肢体语言和其他的活动有关系，我们进行交流的时候，不仅仅是通过言语而已。
So actually, these three things that awesome English speakers do are not just about saying words, these are things that they do during conversations. And this is what we're going to talk about today.
所以实际上呢，英语说得很好的人会做的这三件事情并不只是关于说什么的，是他们在对话中具体是怎么做的。这就是我们今天要谈论的内容。
Starting with body language. That's eye contact, that's facial expression, it's the gestures that you make as you speak.
从肢体语言开始吧。那指的是眼神交流、面部表情，是你说话时的姿势。
All of these things communicate messages to the person who you're talking to. In fact, these are the loudest and the most truthful messages that we use when we communicate.
所有这些东西都会向和你正在交谈的人传递信息。实际上，这些是我们在交流的时候会使用的最响亮的、最真实的信息。
They're even louder or clearer than the actual words that we use. In fact, even when you don't have the perfect words to use, your body language, your tone of voice and other interactions that you have during a conversation can make up for it.
它们甚至比我们使用的词汇传达信息更加响亮、更加清晰。其实呢，即使你没有使用正确的用词，你在对话中的肢体语言，你的声调和其他的互动会弥补上的。
You can still create a really great positive connection that will result in awesome things, even if you don't have the perfect words to do it.
Now I know you're thinking: Emma, I'm concentrating enough on finding the right words to say, let alone what my hands are doing and my eyes are doing, my shoulders are doing.
你仍然可以和别人建立良好的积极的联系，这带来的结果是非常好的，即使你没有使用很完美的词。现在我知道你在想什么：Emma，我在聚精会神地找要说的正确的词汇，根本就不管我的手在做什么，我的眼睛，我的肩膀在做什么。
I can't do everything! But this is a huge conversation hack to help you build awesome relationships with other English speakers.
我什么都做不了！但这是一个很重要的对话技巧，可以帮助你与其他英语使用者建立良好的关系。
If you're a nervous speaker, if you're a little unsure about speaking in English, learning more about these nonverbal communication tools is going to help you to create more positive conversation experiences.
Whether you are aware of it or not, your body language is constantly sending information to other people.
如果你说话的时候会紧张，如果你对于说英语并不太确定，了解更多关于这种非语言交流的工具可以帮助你创造更加积极的对话经历。不管你意识到了没有，你的肢体语言会不断向其他人发送信息。
It's helping them to trust you and feel comfortable with you or it's confusing them or offending them in some way which is obviously not what you want. And sometimes the words that someone is saying don't match what their body language is telling you and this can be really confusing.
它可以帮助别人建立对你的信任，让别人感到和你在一起很舒适，但是也有可能会使他们感到困惑，或冒犯到他们，这肯定不是你想要的结果。有时候某人说的话和他们的肢体语言并不相符，这会很令人困惑。
If your colleague said, "Hey, a few of us are going for a run around the park at lunch time. Do you want to come?" And then you said, "Yeah that'd be great."
如果你的同事说：“嘿，我们有人想在午饭时间去公园跑个步，你想加入吗？”然后你说：“好呀，肯定会很棒。”
They'd probably be surprised or confused and wondering what does she actually mean? Does she want to come?
他们可能会感到惊讶或者是很困惑，可能在想她到底是什么意思。她想来吗？
The reason why I want you to think about this is because many of my English students sometimes have quite a serious look of concentration on their faces when they're trying to listen to someone or think of what they're gonna say and this is totally understandable because they're doing a lot of concentrating and thinking about what they need to say and how they need to express it and is it the right tense but this can be a problem because it creates conflicting messages for the person you're talking to.
If you have this confused sort of scrunched up look on your face while you're listening to them, then that person that might feel a little uncomfortable.
我要让大家考虑一下这件事情是因为我的不少学英语的学生有时候脸上集中精神的时候会有一种严肃的表情，当他们尝试听某人在说什么的时候，或者是在考虑他们要说什么的时候，这完全是可以理解的，因为他们在专注地思考他们应该说什么，应该如何表达出来，时态对不对，但这可能也会造成问题，因为这会向正在与你交谈的人传递矛盾的信息。如果在听别人说话的时候，脸上会有这种困惑的或者是皱眉的表情的话，那这个人肯定会感觉有点不舒服的。
They might think maybe you don't agree with them or you know they're feeling a little uncomfortable and unsure and you know all this means is that they're probably gonna try and leave the conversation. No one likes to feel awkward and uncomfortable, right?
他们可能认为你不同意他们说的话，他们可能会感觉有点不太自然，不太确定，而这都意味着他们可能会尝试从这次对话中脱身。没有人喜欢感到尴尬和不舒服的感觉，是吧？
I mean there are times when you want to send that type of message to someone that you're confused or you're lost or you disagree but I don't want you to do it by mistake and by accident. Let's face it.
有时候你是想向别人传递这种信息的，告诉别人你感到困惑，或者是你没听懂，又或者是你不同意，但是你不想错误地、完全是出于意外地这么做。让我们直面这个问题吧。
If people enjoy being around you, they're probably gonna be more polite, they'll probably want to help you more and want to spend more time with you.
So improving your body language will help you to express what you mean, connect with others in a really positive way and build good relationships.
如果大家喜欢和你在一起的话，他们可能会表现得更有礼貌，他们可能想为你提供更多帮助，也希望多花时间和你交流。因此，改善肢体语言可以帮助你表达你真正想传达的信息，与他人建立真正积极的联系，构建良好的人际关系。
Now I've been part of a lot of online conversations lately, perhaps you have too and this is one thing that English learners don't pay enough attention to.
This is how you create relationships with your teachers, you make friends and if you've ever wondered why you know it's so obvious and easy for others to create these great relationships, this is what they're doing differently.
我最近参与了很多线上的对话，你可能也是，这是很多英语学习者没有很注意的一件事情。这其实是与老师建立关系，交朋友的方式，如果你曾经想过为什么建立良好的关系对于其他人来说那么容易，其实这就是他们不同的地方。
They're looking at the camera when people are talking. They're, you know, keeping people interested, they're nodding and smiling to show that they're listening, you know, and that they respect the time that you have that you're sharing with them.
人们聊天时会看着相机。他们在让大家保持兴趣，他们会点头，微笑，证明他们在听，他们非常珍惜你和他们一起度过的时间。
If you're only half paying attention to someone and maybe you're checking your phone or checking your emails while they're talking to you, well, this is what it feels like. Obviously, you're gonna get a much better result if you give your full attention to someone.
如果在别人和你说话的时候，你并没有那么关注某个人，你可能在看手机，或者是查看电子邮件，那就是这个感觉。很明显，如果你全神贯注于这个人的话，结果肯定会更好的。
If you look them in the eye, if you smile at them and you acknowledge them and appreciate the time that they have for you. The tone of your voice allows you to convey meaning too and I'm talking about the pitch of your voice and how it changes.
如果你看着他们的眼睛，如果你对他们微笑，如果你珍惜他们和你度过的这段时间的话。你的语气也可以传达信息，我说的是你的音调，以及会带来的结果。
This affects the meaning or the way that people interpret your meaning. Now in lots of other languages, a change in tone might actually change the meaning of a word by definition.
这会影响你的意思，或者是影响别人对你的意思的表达。在大多数其他的语言中，语调的变化可能会改变单词的意思。
But in English, this isn't the case. A change in pitch is about changing the attitude or the mood of what you're saying.
但是英语却不是这样。音调的变化是关于你对自己所说的东西态度的改变或者是情感的改变。
It could show enthusiasm or boredom or interest. In English, it really is not just what you say but it's how you say it as well.
它可以表现出热情，也可以是无聊或者是兴趣。在英语中，并不只是你说了什么，你说的方式也很重要。
The tone of your voice works in a really similar way to body language you know. If the tone doesn't match the words that are coming out of your mouth, then people feel confused or like they don't really trust you.
你的语气和身体语言的作用其实是很相似的。如果重音与从你的嘴里说出来的词汇不相符的话，大家就会感到困惑，或者是他们会觉得并不能够相信你。
Both of these things, tone and body language, they work together like a super team to strengthen your communication but tone is one of the hardest things to master as an English student because there are no clear rules about how it works. It's just a feeling.
口音和肢体语言这两个方面，它们就像一个超级团队一样，会一起工作，加强你的沟通，但是语调是作为一个学英语的学生最难掌握的事情之一，因为并没有明确的规则。只是一种感觉而已。
When it comes to tone, louder can be excitement but it can also be anger. Tone is also that magic ingredient in complicated humour like sarcasm.
当谈到语调的时候，声音大的话可以是兴奋的，但是也可能是愤怒的。音调也是像是讽刺这种复杂的幽默中非常神奇的一个成分。
Yeah, you'd be really good at that. And it's also an important part of communicating frustration.
对啊，你真的很擅长呢。这也是表达自己不开心的重要部分。
I told you. I'm really busy right now. These are some of the trickiest parts of English conversation and they're hugely affected by tone.
我告诉过你，我现在很忙。这些都是英语对话中最最复杂的部分，而它们深受语调的影响。
And while it might sound complicated, as your English teacher, I really want you to pay attention to tone and to start experimenting with it.
And I suggest you focus on the positive aspects of nonverbal communication first because these are the most visible or the most obvious parts you know and because it's positive, it's gonna help you with your communication.
虽然看似复杂，作为大家的英语老师，我真的希望你多注意一下声调，并且开始试验一下。我建议大家先侧重于非语言交流中比较正性的方面，因为这些是最明显的或最显而易见的，因为这是正性的，可以帮助你进行交流。
Practise making positive exclamations in front of a mirror, you know, focusing on your body language, your facial expression and the tone of your voice. Wow, that's amazing.
在镜子前练习积极的感叹，关注自己的身体语言，面部表情和声音的语调。哇，真神奇。
Wow, that's amazing! I've got some good news.
哇，太神奇了！我有个好消息。
I've got some good news! Hello, I need your help.
我有个好消息！你好，我需要你的帮助。
Hello, I need your help. Of course, getting a really strong feel for this, a natural feel for it, is gonna take practise and if you want to keep practising with me, my imitation lessons are a really great place to practise vocabulary, facial expression, tone, body language, all of these things together through storytelling.
你好，我需要你的帮助。当然了，如果有有更加强烈的感觉，感觉起来更加自然的话，是需要进行练习的，如果你想和我一起练习的话，我的模拟课程是个不错的选择，可以帮助大家练习词汇、面部表情、语调、肢体语言，所有的这些都可以通过讲故事的方式进行练习。
Check out my latest lesson up here. Awesome English speakers are also great team players in conversations which means they share the conversation.
看看我的最新课程吧。英语说得很棒的人在对话中也是非常善于合作的人，他们会参与到对话之中。
They listen, they respond and they help others to participate as well and to enjoy themselves. They don't dominate the conversation, they don't speak over the top of everyone.
他们会听，他们会进行回应，他们会帮助他人参与其中，享受对话。他们不会主导对话，也不会说得比任何人都要多。
They're there to participate. Now just because someone talks a little too much in conversation doesn't mean that they're a bad person or even that they're a bad listener.
他们是认真地参与对话的。如果有人在对话中说得有点点太多了的话，其实并不意味着他们人不好，或者是他们是不好的倾听者。
Some of the kindest, loveliest people that I know still struggle with this, with talking over the top of others but the reason why this is especially important to you as an English Learner is because you want to make sure that people enjoy talking to you when you're speaking in English.
Sharing the conversation is going to make people want to stay, to talk more, to find out more about you and allow you to build that relationship because that relationship means more chances to speak, more chances to learn, someone to speak with regularly and I mean who knows, you know you might build a relationship with them where they start helping you and giving you feedback or supporting you with your pronunciation.
我认识的一些特别善良特别棒的人，在这方面还在苦苦挣扎，因为他们说的话比别人多，但这对你作为一个英语学习者来说十分重要的原因是，因为你想确保当你说英语的时候，大家喜欢和你进行交流。分享这个对话，让别人也参与其中能够让别人想要留在对话之中，想要说更多，想要更多地了解你，也能让你建立和别人的关系，因为这种关系意味着更多的说话机会，更多的学习机会，定期与某人进行交流的机会，谁知道呢，你可能与他人建立了很好的关系，他们会开始帮助你，给予你发音方面的反馈或者是帮助。
I mean obviously, you can't expect random people to do that for you but if you build a good relationship with someone like a colleague, a neighbour, someone in your class, an online friend, then it might pay off for you.
And I'm not saying that this is gonna be easy but if you think a little more broadly about the benefits and the value of these skills and how they can help you to keep improving your English naturally, well that's interesting and valuable to you.
很明显，你不能指望随随便便一个人会这么做，但是如果你和别人建立了良好的关系的话，比如说你的同事和邻居啊，班上的某个人啊，线上的朋友啊，这肯定会有回报的。我并不是说这是很容易的一件事，但是如果你更加全面地考虑一下这些技能的益处和价值，以及如何它们将帮助你自然而然地提高英语水平的话，那这肯定对你而言是非常有趣、非常有价值的事情。
Now I don't care if you say, "Emma, I always let other people speak. I always listen to them." because people who talk too much and they don't share a conversation usually never even notice that they're doing it.
我并不在乎如果你说：“Emma，我总是会让别人说。我总是会听别人说。”因为说话很多的人，不把话语权交给别人的人通常甚至并没有意识到他们在这么做。
They don't mean to do it but you need to actively practise that curiosity. Be curious about a person and what they're talking about.
他们不是有意这样做的，但是你需要积极地训练这种好奇心。对别人感到好奇，对他们在谈论的内容感到好奇。
Ask questions, show that you're interested in them and bring them into the conversation. Show them that you're listening to them as well you know by making sounds and expressions like. . .
提提问题，表明你对他们很感兴趣，把它们带入到对话之中。也要向他们表明你在认真听他们说什么，可以通过发出这样的声音和表情来做到。
Show them that you're listening and that you're interested. So how do you work on these skills?
向他们表明他们你在好好听，而且你对此很感兴趣。那么你该如何运用这些技能呢？
How do you know if you are good at these things or not and what can you do about it? So it's simple. You watch and you copy, you imitate an English speaker.
你怎么知道你是否擅长这些，以及该怎么办呢？非常简单的。去看，然后复制，模仿讲英语的人。
Not just any native English speaker, you know, you need to choose someone who is a really positive communicator.
I've added five YouTube videos down in the description below that I think are good examples of people who are communicating really effectively, you know and I want you to watch them, watch what their body does, listen to the tone of their voice and how that influences what they're saying.
不是任何英语母语的人都可以，你需要选择一个真正的积极的沟通者。我在视频下方的描述区添加了五个 YouTube 视频，我认为它们都是有效沟通的很好的例子，我希望大家可以去看看，看看他们的身体语言，听他们的语调，以及这些因素是如何影响他们所说的话的。
And then record yourself talking about that same topic to see what you look like while you're talking, you know, do you have a friendly expression, you know, does it feel positive or do you feel confused and uncomfortable or awkward.
So what is it that you can do to change that? You know, and it might be as simple as trying to smile a little bit more as you're talking or maintain eye contact.
然后录下来谈论同一个话题的自己，看看你在说话的时候是什么样子的，你的表情友善吗，感觉是积极的，还是感觉有点困惑，还是不太自然有点点尴尬呢。自己该做什么来进行改变呢？可能就跟试着在说话的时候多去微笑一下，或者是保持目光交流一样简单。
These are really small and subtle things that have a huge impact on the way that you communicate with other people. And often, these things are different between languages and cultures, right?
这些都是很小很细微的事情，但是却对你和他人交流的方式产生巨大的影响。通常情况下，这些因素在不同的语言和文化之间会存在差异，对吧？
So the way that we do this in English might be a little different to the way that you do it you know in your native country. So these three things that awesome English speakers do really are hacks for great conversation.
我们在英语中这样操作的方式，可能和你在你的国家这么做会有一点不同。优秀的说英语的人会注意的这三个方面是进行很棒的对话的关键技巧。
Improving these things is gonna help you to have better English conversation experiences, you know. You'll make more English-speaking friends, you'll get more speaking practice and ultimately it's gonna help you to become more fluent and a more confident English communicator.
改善这些方面能够帮助你拥有更好的英语对话经历。你会结识更多说英语的朋友，你将获得更多的口语练习机会，而这最终会帮助你变成一个更加流利、更加自信的英语沟通者。
I mean really don't underestimate the importance of these things. I hope that I've given you some interesting ideas to think about.
不要低估这些方面的重要性。希望我给了大家一些有趣的想法，可以去思考一下。
Let me know your thoughts about this video in the comments below and give it a like if you enjoyed it. Make sure you subscribe to the channel and head over into one of these lessons here if you want to keep practising with me now.
请在评论区告诉我你对这个视频的看法，如果喜欢的话请给我点个赞吧。一定要订阅我的频道哦，如果你想和我一起继续练习的话，那就去这些课程看看吧。
I'll see you in there!
我在那里等着大家！
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