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不我不会说用英语怎么说 怎么用英语说不
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Today's lesson is a conversational one.
今天的课程是关于一个对话的内容。
We're looking at different excuses that we could use to say no to something that we don't want to be involved with.
我们正在寻找不同的借口，我们可以用它来摆脱我们不想参与的事情。
Who's this for?
这堂课主要是针对哪些人？
Well, today's lesson is accessible, so I would say at beginners, those looking to gain a little bit more confidence with their vocabulary.
好吧，今天的课程是很容易的，所以我是指初学者，那些希望通过词汇获得更多信心的人。
Okay, so today's situation: I have a friend called Rideon who likes coming up with some pretty silly ideas some of the time.
好的，所以今天的情况：我有一个名叫Rideon的朋友喜欢在某些时候提出一些非常愚蠢的想法。
He's a fantastic guy, but what he said is: "Benjamin, Benjamin, would you like to get involved with my new idea? I'm going to be starting a business making inflatable pumpkins.
I think it will be great for people at parties to hold the inflatable pumpkins, and a bit of decoration at home." Now, my immediate reaction to this is like: "No, no, no, Rideon. I don't want to do this."So, I'm going to really sort of try and bowl him over.
他是一个很棒的家伙，但他说的是：“本杰明，本杰明，你愿意参与其中吗？我的新想法？ 我将开始做充气南瓜的生意。
我想会非常适合在聚会的人时候们拿着充气南瓜，还可以装饰家里。然而，我对此的直接反应是：“不，不，不，里迪恩。我不想这样做这个。“所以，我真的会试着拒绝他。
"Bowl him over", to sort of knock the idea flat by listing some pretty strong reasons to say no.
“拒绝他”，通过列出一些非常有说服力的理由来拒绝他人。
I expect he'll then come back and say: "But Benjamin, Benjamin, haven't you thought about this?"and I'll cut him off, I'll say: "No", and these are going to be my ways of just going. . . Cutting him off once he returns the argument.
我希望他会回来说：“但本杰明，本杰明，你难道没有想过这主意吗？“我会拒绝他，我会说：”不，“这些将是我的方式......一旦他提出我不想参与的主意，就把他打断。
But this is. . .
但这是......
This is really sort of the nuts and bolts.
这真的是一些细节。
"The nuts and bolts", the main bits of my argument.
“基本要素”，是我论证的主要内容。
So, I'm going to start off: "First of all", and then I can put his name.
所以，我要开始：“首先”，然后我先写上他的名字。
"First of all, Rideon"-so I'll just put R-"I can't imagine anyone spending money on that".
“首先，Rideon” - 所以我只是把R-“我无法想象有人在那上花钱”。
Okay?
懂了吗？
So, I then list my reason here.
所以，我在这里列出我的理由。
"The main reason for my hesitancy"-the main reason for me to say no-"is that I can't imagine anyone wanting to spend money on something as silly as that.
Secondly. . ."I know this is actually my third reason, but if it was my second reason, I could say: "Secondly. . ."If it is my third reason, I can say: "Thirdly. . ."Okay?
“我犹豫不决的主要原因” - 我说“不 - 的主要原因”是我无法想象有人想要把钱花在那些傻事上。
其次......“我知道这实际上是我的第三个原因，但如果这是我的第二个原因，我可以说：“其次......”如果这是我的第三个原因，我可以说：“第三......”好吗？
So let's pop that up there for you as well.
所以，让我们也帮你拿出来。
Or I could just say: "Also. . ."Okay?
或者我可以说：“还......”
That's another way of introducing a reason.
这是提出理由的另一种方式。
"Also, who thinks that having an inflatable pumpkin in their living room looks aesthetically. . . ? Looks beautiful to the eye?" Certainly not me.
“而且，谁认为在他们的起居室里放一个充气南瓜看起来很美观......？看起来很漂亮？”当然不是我。
Okay?
知道吗？
Then I go on, I want to introduce another idea: "Besides that. . ."So: "Besides that",
然后我继续，我想引入另一个想法：“除此之外......”所以：“除此之外那”，
next to, yeah?
下一个，耶?
We can see at the side of someone, at someone's side.
我们可以看到某人的身边，某人的身边。
"Besides that", so the reason next to this.
“除此之外”，接下来就是这个原因。
"Besides that, I don't want to have to think about this idea at the moment. I've got other priorities." I've got other priorities.
“除此之外，我现在不想考虑这个想法。我还有其他优先考虑的事情。”我还有其他优先考虑的事情。
It's a bit of a risk.
这有点风险。
And then Rideon comes back to me and he says: "Dah-dah-dah-dah-dah, Benjamin, dah-dah-dah-dah-dah-dah-dah, wonderful idea, wonderful idea", and I say: "Well, the thing is, Rideon, I'm going to have to stop you there.
The thing is, Rideon, I'm a busy guy; I'm doing this, I'm doing that. I just can't get involved at this time. The thing is, Rideon, I just can't be involved."
And he talks back, and I come back to him by saying: "I just can't imagine the target audience.
I just can't imagine: A) what this would sell for, and why they'd want to buy that. I guess what it comes down to. . .
I guess what it comes down to. . ."So this is kind of a conclusion, here.
然后Rideon回到我身边，他说：“Dah-dah-dah-dah，Benjamin，dah-dah-dah-dah-dah-dah-dah，精彩的想法，精彩的想法”，我说：“好吧，事实是，里迪恩，我将不得不阻止你。
事实是，里迪恩，我是一个忙碌的人;我这样做，我正在这样做。
我此时没有时间和精力做这件事情。事情是，里迪恩，我此时没有时间和精力做这件事情。“他回答说，我回答他说：“我无法想象什么样的顾客。
我无法想象：A）这会卖什么，为什么他们想要买。
我猜它归结为......我猜它归结为......“所以在这里，这是一个结论。
This is like my end reason.
这就像我最终的理由。
"I guess what it comes down to is", and then you list your big reason.
“我猜它归结为什么”，然后列出你的重要原因。
If I'm talking to Rideon about this: "I guess what it comes down to is it's the wrong time for me".
如果我和Rideon谈论这件事：“我猜它归结为对我来说是错误的时间”。
"At the end of the day. . ."So, these are all ways of concluding.
“在一天结束时......”所以，这些都是结束的方式。
"At the end of the day, it's just a bit silly, Rideon".
“在一天结束时，它只是有点傻，Rideon”。
"I'd love to, I really would".
“我很乐意，我真的愿意”。
This phrase here: "I really would" makes me sound sincere.
这句话：“我真的会”让我听起来真诚。
It makes it sound as if I really believe what I'm saying.
这听起来好像我真的相信我所说的。
"I'd love to, I really would, but I think it's something you should do on your own. Why not give it a go?"Okay?
“我很乐意，我真的愿意，但我认为这是你应该自己做的事情。为什么不试一试呢？”好的？
So, we've had a slightly silly story, but you have here lots of different ways in which you can be saying no to a suggestion that is put towards you.
所以，我们有一个有点傻的故事，但是你有很多不同的方式可以拒绝对你提出的建议。
"First of all", put a reason.
“首先”，提出一个理由。
"The main reason. . . Secondly. . . Thirdly. . . Also. . . Besides that. . . The thing is. . ."Okay?
“主要原因......其次......第三......还......除此之外......事情是......”好吗？
Persuade them.
说服他们。
Let them see the light of day.
让他们看到白昼的光芒。
Let them see the truth.
让他们看到真相。
"I just can't imagine. . . I guess what it comes down to. . . At the end of the day. . . I'd love to, I really would, but. . ."
“我无法想象......我猜它将会......在一天结束时...我很乐意，我真的愿意，但......”
What I would love you to do right now is to give the quiz a go.
我现在要你做的就是做一个测试。
See if you can get 10 out of 10.
看看你是否可以获得10分中的满分。
If you can, give yourself a pat on the back.
如果可以，请给自己掌声。
Until next time, press subscribe and I'll see you in the next video. Bye.
按下订阅，下一次我会在另一个视频中看到你。再见。
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