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当“巩俐身材”被送上热搜时,英大万万没想到打开一看,营销号的“嘲讽”排列的如此整齐,随便一个标题就能让女性同胞当场气的两眼一黑:

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微博上甚至还有人就“巩俐身材”发起了投票???!

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好在保持理智的网民还是占大多数:55岁的巩皇皮肤黝黑,落落大方的吊带裙,气场还是一如既往的“稳”,都2020年了,怎么还有人拿“白瘦幼”这套标准说事???

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果不其然,这事第一时间都惊动外媒了:

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中国社交媒体用户抗议“身材羞辱”

最近,著名女星巩俐的近照流出,曲线丰盈的形象在新浪微博上掀起轩然大波,点击量破8.5亿次。一时间,巩俐的体重变化成为微博上的谈资,公众对她外表的关注点燃了“正面对待身材”的转评,社交媒体上,网民纷纷抨击老生常谈的身材标准,拒绝身材羞辱。

Recent photos of famous actress Gong Li that showed her curvier figure have gone viral on Sina Weibo, receiving over 850 million clicks. With Gong Li’s weight gain becoming all the talk on Weibo, the public’s focus on her appearance has sparked an online wave of body positivity posts, with web users rejecting the all-too-common phenomenon of body shaming on Chinese social media.

微博用户@_HYIII_同一天发表的微博“拒绝body shame”获5万多点赞,1700多转发。

“Reject body shaming! Why should we all have the same figure? Tall or short, thin or fat, all have their own characteristics. Embrace yourself, and show off your own unique beauty!”

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巧的是,寡姐斯嘉丽·约翰逊前几日被拍到在海滩遛狗:戴着墨镜,穿着浅粉色吊带裙,气势分分钟要把自己变成行走的表情包……

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但一打开新闻标题,又是一顿莫名其妙的鄙视:性感尤物在线翻车,欧美女星上30秒变大妈……

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不是……谁规定女星一定要青春永驻身材火辣?借用杨笠吐槽黑寡妇能力“永葆年轻”、“身材好”、“够漂亮”……这个超能力要怎么拯救世界,把敌人活活熬死吗??

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寡姐其实不止一次吐露过在好莱坞,为保持身材所面临的压力有多大:

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“对于演员来说,保持身材苗条其实压力很大。我最喜欢的一部电影《彗雪美人》中有个场景,Bette Davis在房间里转来转去,为什么事感到焦躁的很,她拿起一块巧克力……又放下了……再次拿起又放下……最后,她放弃了挣扎吃了它,这其中经历了多大的挣扎抗拒!即使在当时,这种压力也还是一直在。如今,就更变本加厉了。”

There has always been pressure on actors to stay thin. There's a scene in one of my favorite movies, All About Eve, where Bette Davis is circling around the room, horribly upset about something, and she picks up a chocolate ... puts it down ... picks it up again ... puts it down again ... finally, she gives in and eats it, but only after a huge struggle! So even back then, there was the pressure going on. And now, it's much worse.

还有一位硬刚大众对她身材和穿着质疑的女星就是年轻人心中的Z时代偶像、先锋时尚icon碧梨。她在迈阿密演唱会上发布的短片"Not My Responsibility"(不是我的责任),缓缓的脱下自己的衣服,回应body shame的言论。

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穿的舒服就是没有女人味了?穿着性感我就是Biao了?你们又没见过我的身材,凭什么肆意评价它,评价我?!

"If I wear what is comfortable, I am not a woman. If I shed layers, I'm a slut. Though you've never seen my body, you still judge it – and judge me for it."

我的价值观不是你的认知所定义的,这是你对我的看法,不是我的责任。

"Is my value based only on your perception? Or is your opinion of me not my responsibility?"

碧梨因为她oversized的穿衣风格一直饱受争议,但她的出发点,就是因为女性经常受到body shame才选择了这一方式,希望大家不要过度讨论她的身材:

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巧的是,最新一期的《脱口秀大会》上,双胞胎颜怡颜悦对于女性“身材焦虑”的吐槽也获得了不少赞誉,全程爆梗,不仅cue到了前一阵爆火的“BM风”——“这家店的特色就是小码,这叫什么特色,不就是断码吗” “不如直接做个小码门再安个高压电网”;还BS了一把“锁骨放硬币”等大型迷惑行为——“锁骨放硬币,是许愿池的王八吗?”

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而另一面,当舆论对女性身材如此苛刻的同时,对男性身材的包容度则是秀出新高度。甚至有个新词叫“Dad bod”(老爹身材,老爹肚)。这是种啥样的身材呢?参考星爵和小李子的海滩照:

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Urban Dictionary对Dad bod的定义是这样的:

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“老爹身材”是一种有一点松松软软小肥肉的圆润男性身材。基于男性一旦有了对象或是做了父亲的理论,他们就放弃了身材管理,成了这副样子。

“老爹身材”是介于“健身身材”和“啤酒肚”中间、达到一种美妙平衡的身材。

Having a "dad bod" is a nice balance between working out and keeping a beer gut

更叫人迷惑的是,居然有调研表明这种爹式身材居然“更有吸引力”???

Planet Fitness发表的调研结果显示,78%的民众认为,自信就是王道。

Survey results published by Planet Fitness show 78 per cent of people think confidence is king.

其中总结到:“近4/5的人认为,爹式身材是男人对自己的肌肤身材自信的表现。”

The summary said: "Nearly four in five among both women and men believe a 'dad bod' is a sign of a man who is confident in his own skin."

结果显示,65%的人表示,老爹身材很具有吸引力,61%的人认为爹式身材很性感。

Results also show 65 per cent of people say the dad bod is attractive while 61 per cent said men with dad bods are sexy.

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这种明显男女不平等待遇的潮流,GQ第一个站出来反驳:“老爹身材”比喻的出现,似乎是迎来了男性身材接受度的新时代,但事实上,不就是为男性的懒惰(laid-back)和自负(vain)找借口吗??

既然自信的人最美,那男女都一样。身材羞辱不应该成为霸凌的借口,在这个多元审美、多元形态的社会中,每个女孩都应该拥有大码自由,自信和健康拥有是最美的。

最后放一下“人间真实”大老师的金句结个尾——大老师,您又懂了==

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