7月30日周六夜接续⬇️ ————劲松，下面我们就来说一说关于古语有云饭后百步走活到九十九?我们一起去了解并探讨一下这个问题吧!
古语有云饭后百步走活到九十九
7月30日周六夜接续⬇️
————劲松
写作为何让我这样醉心？感恩于先祖仓颉，我可以用他的所赐之物表达自己的出身、儿时的生活环境、所受的家庭教育以及自己所经历的70、80、90年代和本世纪。我很快发现也开始定义自己：“我实际上是史家的一件文化家产。
文化浸透了我，我以文化的光辉反射着家庭，如同成都（锦官城）府河、南河和浣花溪的池塘一样反射着白日的炎热。我也不知道自己受到了那种典型的文化熏陶。婴儿时离开新疆，寄居在外祖父母家里。外祖父是原本在天津工作，战战兢兢于某种政治运动，担心受到迫害回到农村，一直到了60多岁还不服输，最后呛然于尿毒症撒手人寰；外祖母是文盲，地道朴素的农村妇女，骨子里却有一种不服输的巾帼情怀，养有5个孩子，皆培育的出人头地。当然自己就会耳濡目染，懵懂中已经看出笼罩在华北基层农村的宗族气氛会是部分弱势家庭悲剧的成因。
Continued on Saturday night, July 30 ⬇️ "Language is neither noble nor humble, but thoughts judges high and low" -- Renarration
————Jinsong
Why does writing fascinate me so much? Thanks to my ancestor Cangjie, I can use his gifts to express my original, childhood living environment, family education and my experience in the 1970s, 1980s, 1990s and even this century. I soon found that I also began to define myself: "I am actually a cultural property of my own family.
Culture permeates me. I reflect my family with the brilliance of culture, just like Fuhe River, Nanhe River and ponds of Huanhua in Chengdu (Jinguan city) reflect the heat of the day. I don't know that I have been influenced by that typical culture. When I was a baby, I left Xinjiang and lived in grandparents' home. My grandfather was originally working in Tianjin, trembling at some kind of political movement, fearing persecution and returning to the countryside. He didn't admit defeat until he was in his 60s, and finally died of uremia; My grandmother is an illiterate and plain rural woman, but she has an unyielding feelings of women in her bones. She has five children, and all of them have been raised to excel. Of course, I will be affected by it. In early days, I saw that the clan atmosphere shrouding the rural areas in North China will be the cause of the tragedy of some vulnerable families.
在我多年笔耕不辍的行文中会多次引用自己的名言：“自己就是独一无二的”，自己一定要好好做自己，要推倒一切偶像和传统的“超人”。数次与学生、同事、好友交流的历史对话，我都会说这句motto，别人的优秀和卓越一定要潜下身来学习，“自己就是独一无二的”，表达的不是桀骜不驯，应该是如履薄冰；表达的不是要贪婪地先得到，而是要利他；“自己就是独一无二的”表达的不是趾高气扬，而是大音希声！
In my many years of writing, I will quote my favorite saying many times: "I'm unique". I must be myself and overthrow all idols and traditional "Superman". In several talks with students, colleagues and friends, I will say this sentence —motto". The excellence of others must dive down to learn, "you are unique", which means not being unruly, but likes walking on thin ice; The expression is not to get greedily first, but to be altruistic; "I'm unique" doesn't mean to be arrogant, but to be ——Great music has the faintest notes!
窃以为——人生失败的原因只有两个：1、方法不对；2、努力不够。无它！人生来有贵贱的命题您认为是对的，那就要通过两代人的努力进行下一代孩子们的启蒙教化，努力做到家族振兴，此方法也。天下人多数能看到一只漂亮的天鹅在新疆赛里木湖上优雅的游弋，殊不知水面下它的那对双脚拨弄的有多么厉害！………会而议，议而不决，决而不行，安有结果？22年列了计划清单，抱怨疫情，抱怨天，抱怨地…….就是不起而行之，问君可知？——2022年12月底您的人生收成?
I believe that there are only two reasons for failure in life: 1. The wrong method; 2. Not enough effort. RIGHT! It's right if you think that people are born with the proposition of high and low. Then we should enlighten the next generation of children and through the efforts of two generations ,aiming at striving to revitalize the family. This belongs to method . Most people in the world can only see a beautiful swan cruising gracefully on the Seyram Lake in Xinjiang, but they don't know how powerful its feet under the water …….Will there be a result if we discuss at a meeting, to discuss yet without a decision, absolutely without a result? In 2022 ,we have made plans , complaining about the epidemic, complaining about God, ……….. but don’t start to do it. Do you know? At the end of December 2022, what is your yearly harvest?
可是我们知道，上至三皇五帝，近到21世纪，一个人要闯出一片天：去不断挖掘自己的潜力，屡次地化危为机，把自己视为自己命运的主宰有多么艰难？
完全摆脱传统思想的外壳，颠覆自己，为自己设定目标创造条件乃第一要诀。可想而知：一个人，一个家庭，一个国家、一个民族如果没有规划，没有任务清单，就好比是一艘船，一艘船如果不知道自己的目的地驶向何方，那就可以断定所有方向来的风对于这艘船来说——都是逆风！
But from the ancient times to the 21st century, don’t you know that how difficult it is for a person to constantly tap his potential, repeatedly turn a dangerous situation into opportunity, and can regard himself as the master of his destiny?
The first key is to completely get rid of the shell of traditional thoughts, subvert yourself, and create conditions for setting goals for yourself. It is conceivable that if a person, a family, a country or a nation had no planning and task lists, they would like a ship which does not know where its destination is heading. Then,it can be concluded that the wind from all directions is headwind for the ship!
本文所提及的“人”，是指具体的人，即具有一定社会关系的总和的人。写作中句子和句子之间，叫句际关系；人和人之间叫人际关系；国与国之间的博弈，称之为国际关系。而每个人人性或新心房深处都是趋利避害的，要获得人生赢家的称号需要了解人性，获取人际关系中的他人信任乃是第一关键。洋文所言：No context no text！可以译成“没有上下文就没有文章”，人际关系没有一个人在社会上的路就会越走越窄，没有大文章可做！朋友相逢各处：最高境界的朋友当属“畏友”之交；最低质量的友谊当属狐朋狗友沆瀣一气！
The "person" mentioned in this article refers to a specific person, that is, a person with a certain sum of social relations. The relationship between sentences in writing is called inter-sentence relationship; Interpersonal relationship exists between people; The game between countries is called international relations. However, everyone is seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages . In order to win the title of winner in life, it is necessary to understand human nature, and obtaining the trust of others a good interpersonal relationships is the first key. Foreigners often say: no context no text! It can be translated as "no context, no article". Without a good interpersonal relationship in society, the road will be narrower and narrower, and there is no big chess to play! Friends meet everywhere: the highest level of friends should be “being afraid of each other ; The lowest quality friendship should be the collusion among evil friends !
如在中国的社会，信任或称之为真正的友谊往往被曲解为就是——交换彼此的秘密，谬也！的确，要做到他人信任你好难好难哦……….健康法制社会的期望努力就是要向不诚信开刀开炮，是也！………此处想到了群内令我钦佩的青年才俊张智鑫。
A之于B，B之于C，彼此的信任又是这样——要让父母相信：要找的男友就是会伴我白头到老的，妈妈不信！（此处想到了清华大学毕业做红娘月老的曾克）说服家中我要行走天涯去创业，爸爸不信！说服客户先交订金（or定金），客户死活不交！大国博弈，“文治武功”，说服美利坚台湾是我们中国神圣不可分割的一部分，他X的，对方就是阴招不断！
For example, in Chinese society, trust or true friendship is often misinterpreted as exchanging each other's secrets, which is absurd! Indeed, it's hard to be trusted by others ,the expectation of a legal society is to attack dishonesty, YES!……… Here I think of the young talent Zhang Zhixin who I admire in the group.
A is to B, B is to C, and the trust between each other is like this - to urge parents into believing that the boyfriend I'm looking for will be with me forever, Mom doesn't believe it! (here I think of Zeng Ke, who graduated from Tsinghua University and became a matchmaker.) I persuaded my family to establish a business, but my father didn't believe it! Persuade the customer to pay the deposit first, and the customer won’t pay it! In the game among great powers, for example, United States admits that TW is a sacred and inseparable part of China. FUCK, tactually is constantly cunning by some American politicians!
获取他人他国信任无他：1、方法methodology；2、努力industrious。YES！
周末与妹妹交流，她感言：一个人，尤其是成年人经历的太多，大脑已经形成了一层“氧化膜”，会油盐不进，激动人心的话碰到的仅是冷漠警惕的眼光？答曰：方法就是“浓硫酸 温水泡”，暴风骤雨 和风细雨的实施路径方能奏效！坚信：一个人故意装睡的人是可以被唤醒的。同理，针对一个准备要和渣男组建家庭、好心人和过来人们多次劝阻仍执迷不悟的女孩子，采取的方法和不懈的努力家庭成员就要一定好好斟酌担起这份责任来呀…………
To gain the trust of others: 1. Methodology; 2. Hard industrious. YES！
When communicating with my sister at the weekend, she said: a person, especially adults, has experienced too much, and his brain has formed a layer of "oxide film", so he will refuse everything, and will only encounter cold and alert eyes when listens to those exciting words. Answer here: the method is "concentrated sulfuric acid warm blister", and the implementation path of storm gentle rain do work! I firmly believe that a person who deliberately pretends to sleep can be awakened. Similarly, for a girl ,who is ready to form a family with a bad guy and who are still stubborn after being dissuaded many times by people , the girl’s family members must consider to shoulder the responsibility.
70年代的儿时经历让我深知宗族思想长期牵绊掣肘着农村，显然与国家的政策方针强烈对立，开明的领导力图改变，但大部分村民的小农意识作梗坏了很多原本优秀孩子的前程，和我小时候一起长大的少年也就永远守望寒门………..和他们再见面时，让我想起了鲁迅笔下的闰土。故，当下乡村振兴的一大使命就是：村民的思想振兴，基层村镇书记们、村长们的思想应该接受正确科学赋能！劲松的幼年经历（四年级又被送回新疆）农村给了我刺痛，高中华北就读又回到父母的故乡时本希望一个拯救农村的“彻底英雄”出现，但始终没有看到这个“他人”！
欣慰的是当下针对农村政策的稳健英明，现在的农村已经️了日新月异的改变，要坚信中国广大农村的彻底振兴才是中华民族扬眉吐气的巨大引擎！
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My childhood experience in the 1970s helped me to know that clan thought has long hampered the countryside, which is obviously in strong opposition to the national policies and guidelines, and the enlightened leadership has changed, but the small-scale peasant consciousness of most villager still hinders the future of many excellent children, and the teenagers who grew up with me when I was a child will always live in despair. When I meet them again, I think of the Runtu written by Lu Xun. Therefore, one of the major missions of Rural Revitalization at present is: the ideological revitalization of villagers, and the thoughts of village secretaries and village heads should be properly and scientifically empowered! Jinsong's childhood experience (I was sent back to Xinjiang in the fourth grade of elementary school) hurts me in the countryside. When I went back to my parents' hometown in North China when high school, I hoped that a " hero" who can save the countryside would appear, but I never see this “another person"!
It is gratifying that sound and wise policies for rural areas where the rapid changes happened. we must firmly believe that the complete revitalization for China's vast rural areas is the huge engine for the Chinese nation !
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我醉了，醉心于这句话：语言无贵贱，思想有高低！我酩酊大醉：人生无贵贱，我辈需努力！
一段文字，惊扰了您的清晨美梦，虽和大家已经熟了，也是略带歉意。
连载文章就此杀青！
I'm drunk. I'm obsessed with this sentence: language is neither noble nor humble, thoughts are but high or low! I'm drunk: one’s life can not to talk expensive or cheap, our generation needs to be industrious!
A paragraph of text disturbed your dream in the morning. Although I am familiar with everyone, say sorry here!
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